অামরা সফল হবো কিভাবে"
মারিও কুওমো বলেছেন “ মাত্র দুটি পন্থায় সফল হওয়া যায়! একটি হচ্ছে সঠিক লক্ষ্য নির্ধারণ করা, ঠিক যা তুমি করতে চাও। আর দ্বিতীয়টি হচ্ছে, সেই লক্ষ্যে কাজ করে যাওয়া॥ ”
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অামরা ঠিক কি করি?
লক্ষ্য অবশ্য সকলের থাকে সেটা নিজের মনের মতো হোক অার অন্যের ইচ্ছে মতো হোক।
অন্যের ইচ্ছেমতো বলতে কারো ইচ্ছেটা অামার উপর চাপিয়ে দেওয়া, উপায়ন্তর না দেখে চুপচাপ সেটা মেনে নেওয়া।
অবশ্য সেজন্য দ্বায়ী অামি নিজেই।
অামরা সবসময় চেষ্টা করবো অন্যরা যেনো কোনোভাবে তাদের ইচ্ছেটা অামার উপর চাপিয়ে না দেই এমনকি অামি তাদের সেই সুযোগটা করে দিচ্ছি কি-না খেয়াল রাখবো সবসময় অার অবশ্যই সেই লক্ষ্য অনুসারে কাজ করে যেতে হবে।
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এখন কথা হচ্ছে অামাদের লক্ষ্য থাকা সত্তেও অামরা সফল হয়না কেনো?
তার কারণ দুটি হতে পারে-
প্রথমত অামরা সঠিক লক্ষ্য নির্ধারণ করতে পারিনা দ্বিতীয়ত অামরা সেই লক্ষ্য অনুসারে কাজ করি না।
লক্ষ্য নির্ধারণ করি কিন্তু সেটা সঠিক না,অামাদের প্রথমে খুঁজে বের করতে হবে অামি কি চাই, অামার কি করতে ভালো লাগে বা অামি ভবিষ্যতে কি হতে চাই এবং সেই অনুযায়ী কাজ করে যেতে হবে।
লক্ষ্য নির্ধারণ করলাম একটা কিন্ত কাজ করে যাচ্ছি অন্যকিছুর জন্য তাহলে তো হবে না।
লক্ষ্য একটা স্থির করে অন্য কিছুর জন্য কাজ করে যাওয়াই হলো সঠিক লক্ষ্য নির্ধারণ করতে না পারা।
সফল হওয়ার জন্য অামাদের অবশ্যই প্রথমে সঠিক লক্ষ্য নির্ধারণ করতে হবে।
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অামাদের একটা অভ্যাস অাছে সেটা হলো অামরা অন্যকে অনুকরণ করে, অনুসরণ করে লক্ষ্য ঠিক করি।
এখন সে এটা করেছে বলে অামিও এটা করবো কেনো?
অামি নিজেকে খুঁজে বের করবো,নিজেকে অাগে জানবো নিজের তৈরি করা পথে চলবো।
তাই “ অনুকরণ নয়, অনুসরণ নয়, নিজেকে খুঁজুন, নিজেকে জানুন, নিজের পথে চলুন॥ ”
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অার অবশ্যই সবসময় চেষ্টা করে যাবে কারণ একবার দু-বার পারবো না তাই বলে যে তৃতীয় বার পারবো না সেটার কি নিশ্চিত অাছে হতে পারে তৃতীয়বার'ই অামি পেরে যাবো।।
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